Knowing how to read people is a huge help when you’re just starting to date after a breakup. There might have been times in the past when you’ve misjudged somebody’s actions – thought he was into you even though he wasn’t. Knowing what to look for and how to interpret what you find will help you know whether he’s into you.
When you’re trying to read whether a guy’s into you or not, it pays to pay attention to the small gestures and subtle signals he gives out. If he exhibits one or more of the following, he will probably ask you out again.
First sign he’s into you is if he invites discussion. Not a heated debate, but a nice exchange of ideas and experiences. If he’s only answering whatever question you throw, and he’s not volunteering anything about him, then the signal he’s sending is he’s not interested in you. However, if he asks you to talk more about yourself, and tells you about himself as well, then he probably wants to take you out again.
Another sign that he’s really into you is that he leans in closer when you’re talking. This lets you know he’s really interested in what you have to say. It’s an even bigger indicator than participating in the conversation. Body language often speaks louder than words. Listen to what his body is telling you and go with the flow if you’re feeling a little interest on your side.
Is he looking you in the eye? Guys who aren’t interested will have their eye on everyone in the room but you. Don’t get nervous if all the other signs are present but he isn’t looking you in the eye. That could be a sign of nerves. However, when he is looking you in the eye it’s a sure sign that there is definite interest. This dating after a breakup thing is tough isn’t it?
Here are a few signs that he isn’t really all that into you. Knowing this will prevent you from wasting time with someone that simply isn’t feeling the love so to speak.
1. There’s nonstop ex talk. If a guy can’t stop talking about his ex during a date with a different girl, then he’s either still hung up about the ex, or he’s extremely rude. Either way, you don’t want a second date from this kind of guy. He’s not over the girl and will surely view you as his rebound. Don’t take it personally; he’s just not ready for anything yet.
2. He’s on constant time watch. When a guy can’t stop looking at his watch every other minute, then he’s hinting that he’s not having fun and can’t wait for the most polite time to leave. If that’s the case, wish him luck and ask to be taken home. No need to spend so much of your time in a date with him when you can be with someone who invites conversation, leans when you talk, and looks you in the eye.
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